Intimate

A tiny SMS game for couples. Twice a week, you both get the same prompt by text. Answer privately, then see what the other said.

Sign up for yourself. After you confirm, you'll get a private link to send to your partner — they'll opt in on their own phone. Each partner consents independently.

How it works

1

You sign up here with your name and your own phone number, and check the SMS consent box.

2

You reply YES to our confirmation text.

3

You share your invite link with your partner. They open it, sign themselves up, and reply YES to their own confirmation text.

4

About 2–3 times per week at a random time, you each receive the same prompt.

5

Reply privately. Once you've both answered, Intimate sends a reveal text showing each other's answers.

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Reply STOP at any time to cancel. Reply HELP for support.

Example messages

All Intimate messages are sent from our toll-free number 1-866-680-2180. Save it to your contacts so you recognize us.

Confirmation (sent to you after signup)Intimate: Hi Noah! Confirm you want to receive recurring SMS messages from Intimate about couple notifications (~2-3/week). Reply YES to confirm. Reply STOP to cancel, HELP for help. Msg & data rates may apply.
Prompt (sent to both partners)Intimate: What's a small thing your partner did this week that made you smile?
Reveal (after both reply)Intimate 💌 The reveal!

You said: "the coffee you left on my desk."

Emma said: "you put my laundry away without me asking."
Reveal — when a reply is filteredIntimate 💌 The reveal!

You said: "you put my laundry away without me asking."

Emma said: (Your partner replied, but their message couldn't be shared per Intimate's content guidelines.)
Content-filter notice (sent to the sender whose reply was blocked)Intimate: We couldn't share your last reply with your partner — it tripped our content filter. Please keep replies within our content guidelines. Repeated violations may end your subscription.
HelpIntimate: Reply STOP to cancel. For support, email noahkagan@gmail.com. Msg & data rates may apply.

Message content & controls

Prompts are operator-controlled. Every conversation prompt sent by Intimate is written, reviewed, and curated in advance by the operator (Noah Kagan). Prompts are stored in a fixed prompt library inside our database and are scheduled by our own server — users cannot create, edit, submit, or trigger prompts. The full prompt catalog covers light relationship topics (e.g. "What's a small thing your partner did this week that made you smile?", "What should we do this weekend?", "Send a photo of something that made you smile today."). There is no user-generated content in the outbound Prompt or Confirmation messages, and no third party can inject content into them.

Reveal messages carry user replies, but are filtered. The Reveal message echoes each partner's own reply back to the other partner. Before any Reveal is sent, every reply is passed through Intimate's content filter, which screens for SHAFT content (Sex, Hate, Alcohol, Firearms, Tobacco/cannabis) and other prohibited content. If a reply is flagged, it is not forwarded to the partner — the Reveal substitutes the placeholder text shown above, and the sender receives the content-filter notice and may be removed from the service for repeated violations. Media attachments from flagged replies are also withheld.

FAQ

Why can't I sign up for both of us at once?
Each partner must opt in to SMS messages independently from their own phone. This is required by U.S. messaging regulations — one person can't legally consent on behalf of another. So you sign up first, then send your partner a link so they can sign up themselves.
How often will I get texted?
Approximately 2–3 messages per week per person: a prompt, your partner's response in the reveal, and occasional confirmation/help replies. Message frequency may vary.
How do I stop receiving messages?
Reply STOP to any Intimate message at any time and you'll be unsubscribed immediately. You can also email noahkagan@gmail.com to be removed.
What if I need help?
Reply HELP to any Intimate message, or email noahkagan@gmail.com. We respond within a day or two.
What does it cost?
Intimate is free to use. Standard message and data rates from your mobile carrier may apply.
Will my phone number be shared?
No. Phone numbers and opt-in information are never sold, rented, or shared with third parties for marketing purposes. See our Privacy Policy.
What happens to my partner's number if they don't sign up?
Nothing — we never collect or store your partner's phone number. Only you give us your own number. Your partner only enters their number themselves when they open your invite link.
Who's behind this?
Intimate is a small personal side project built and operated by Noah Kagan (sole proprietor, Austin, TX). It exists to help couples stay a little more connected through short, shared prompts.

About

Intimate is a small personal side project built and operated by Noah Kagan, an individual sole proprietor based in Austin, Texas. It's free to use and exists to help couples stay a little more connected through short, shared prompts by text.

We only send SMS messages to people who have personally signed up on this website with their own phone number and confirmed by replying YES. We do not sell, share, or rent opt-in information or phone numbers. See the Privacy Policy for full details.

Business information

Business name: Intimate
Legal entity type: Sole Proprietorship (individual)
Operator / sole proprietor: Noah Kagan
Business address: 1305 E. 6th Street #3, Austin, TX 78702, USA
Website: this site
Sending phone number: 1-866-680-2180 (U.S. toll-free)
Use case: Recurring personal/relationship SMS between two opted-in partners
Message volume: Low — approximately 2–3 messages per week per user
Opt-in method: Each individual personally enters their own phone number on this website, checks an SMS consent box, and replies YES to a confirmation text. Consent is collected 1:1 — never on behalf of someone else.
Prompt content control: All Prompt messages are pre-written and curated by the operator and stored in a fixed prompt library. Intimate is in full control of Prompt and Confirmation message content — no user-generated content appears in outbound Prompt messages. Reveal messages echo each partner's own SMS reply, screened by Intimate's SHAFT content filter before delivery.

Contact

Questions, help, or data requests:
Email: noahkagan@gmail.com
Mail: Noah Kagan, 1305 E. 6th Street #3, Austin, TX 78702, USA
SMS sender: 1-866-680-2180 (for message recognition only — reply HELP for support, STOP to cancel)